How to Win Friends and Influence People
Rule 1: Become genuinely interested in other people.
If you become more intrested in other people, expose realease yourself to other people and they catch intrest in you and want to get to know you better. Maybe by doing this you can find some who may have intrest inyou or find a very special friend that will always be there for you.
When you smile it shows that you do not mine talking to anyone and your open to anyone who wants to talk. Smiling also shows that you are a happy and willing to do your best for your self.
smiling shows that your self modivated willing to do your best.
Rule 3: Remember names
Remembering people names's is very important because it shows that you have intrest in that person and that you are willing to get to know thwm better.
Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
Listening to people shows that you have interest in that person and willing to understand that person. Which can cause to a have a friendship with them or even have a relationship with them. Being a good listener can improve your social life. People would want to talk to you more cause they know that you would listen to what they have to say.
Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest.
Rule number 3 means that, you have ask questions about the persons intrest in order for them to enjoy having a conversation with you. Thats how they end up wanting liking you as a person. If you keep talking about youself and only yourself the person that you are talking to is probably going to think that your selfish and going to lose intrest in talking to you.
Rule 6: Make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely.
This quote means that, MAKE THE PERSON YOU TALK TO FEEL LIKE HE/SHE BELONG SOMEWHERE!!! This is actually important because sometimes that person could feel down and end up being depress. Show him/her that they are accepted and belong somewhere.
Reflection
These six rules will help your social life and help improve your speech skills. It will make you feel better about yourself. These six rules can also be benefical when you enter the workforce. When your in your job you better have better relationships with anybody.
